Tag: self-reflection
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The Loops We Choose — Why People Push Away the Very Ones They Want to Stay
The Loops We Choose: Why People Push Away the Very Ones They Want to Stay We say we want people to stay — yet we show them every reason not to. We crave love but resist accountability. We ask for connection but refuse reflection. We mourn departures without ever facing the part we played in…
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Narcissistic Traits—Seeing Them in Good People
Narcissistic traits can surface in good people, making it hard to distinguish between genuine care and predatory intent. This blog begins with an introspective moment: watching a stranger, I checked myself and found echoes of their behavior in my own online interactions. That realization reframed how I view others—constantly scanning for where I need to…
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To the creators of our own destiny
Every time we try to understand and/or explain something we don’t fully comprehend, or something we’re just learning to express, we have to look at how we’re willing to internalise the situation and how much of our past if impeding us seeing or explaining the situation for what it is, not from what we’ve learned…
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