You earn social veneration when you encompass the whole, and individual veneration should come as a given beside that. Yet when you choose what makes you less considering, you lose points of attraction. It doesn’t make you unworthy of veneration, but the things yoi get venerated for, become less respectable. That’s what I think they were trying to say behind ” be a good girl “. If your mind is inconsiderate as a woman it becomes unattractive, from a man it is a given, so it doesn’t challenge the mind of a woman, yet when the woman sees consideration in a man it does expand her expectations and bekiefs of a man.

Inconsideration is costlier to women, as it becomes a detractor in our subconscious lense. Yet expected of a man and only “extra effort of the heart” consideration raises the persepctive of a Him. An inconsiderate man can go by fine, a considerate woman can allow more than healthy. Are we starting to see the trend yet. I’m playing chinese whispers backwards here… give me a hand.

What costs more to the man, an inconsiderate exposure of his inconsiderations. Inconsiderate exposure, meaning not considering their feelings, as their feelings crested the circumstance that tskes the woman out of her element to undo an excess that doesn’t support continuity. I could have not done it considering everyone. I needed to consider all and everyone intermittengly. Manage expectations over time, not in the now.

Provide a life where thode expectations become a given, rather then providing for a now that couldn’t hold it up long enough.