I can give you a coven though.

I’ll think when to integrate and consider the warlocks.

Write a post about SHS – The Coven. It’s gonna be a group of only women where we discuss different dynamics happening in our lives, and the service that I’ll be offering, of course for free, will be to dissect women’s circumstances or dynamics or situations that they might be going through in life from a metaphysical perspective, not to tell them what to do, but for them to have a different pair of lenses and an outside perspective of what they might be going through when looked at it through the lenses of consciousness at large. Because sometimes, and most of the times, based on the language that we’ve learned in society, we struggle to contextualize things in our own individuality, and that’s purely because of lack of language, lack of perspective, lack of exposure to the circumstance, whatever the case might be. But with the metaphysical lens, that’s as large of a perspective as you can get, and we can navigate different types of perspectives, different situations, and different ways in which they dealt with different circumstances. This is because I don’t personally believe nor see much in our day-to-day relationships. We don’t talk about it a lot, women. We don’t talk about unless it’s like a political or like a specific conversation from a specific case or circumstance. We don’t talk a lot about the things that women do go through and how from the lens of a woman. Because majority, again, majority of the society is constructed by the lens of the man. So we want to create a space and hold the purity of a space that’s only for women, for women, by women, through women, and creating a safe space where we can talk about literally everything. Like nothing is off the table, as it is a table for everything to be offloaded and dissected, contextualized, understood, challenged, all of it.

SHS – THE COVEN

For Women. By Women. Through Women.

A Space Where Nothing Is Off the Table, Because Everything Deserves to Be Understood.

What if we created a space where women could talk about absolutely everything?

Not just the things society has taught us are appropriate to discuss. Not just relationships, motherhood, careers, politics, sexuality, or the occasional conversations about women’s empowerment.

Everything.

The things we understand. The things we don’t. The things we have experienced but have never found the language to explain. The things we have accepted without knowing why. The things we have rejected without knowing where that rejection came from.

The circumstances that have shaped us, the dynamics we find ourselves repeating, the relationships we struggle to contextualise, the emotions we cannot quite identify, and the parts of our own existence that we have yet to discover.

Welcome to SHS – The Coven.

A women-only space within SHS – Human First, dedicated to exploring the female experience through the lenses of consciousness, metaphysics, individuality, and collective human existence.

And everything we do here will be completely free.

What Is The Coven?

The Coven is a gathering of women who want to explore life beyond the limitations of the perspectives they have inherited.

A space where we can bring our circumstances, experiences, questions, observations, uncertainties, curiosities, and discoveries to a communal table.

And what happens at that table?

We dissect. We contextualise. We challenge. We understand. We expand.

Not one another’s individuality, but the understanding of the dynamics operating within and around our individuality.

Because sometimes the reason we struggle to understand what we are going through has absolutely nothing to do with our capacity to understand.

We simply haven’t been given the language, perspective, or exposure necessary to contextualise it.

How do you explain something you have never been taught to recognise?

How do you understand an emotion when the only language available to you describes its symptoms rather than its origins?

How do you identify a pattern when your entire environment has normalised its existence?

How do you recognise that something could be different when everything you have ever experienced has reinforced that this is simply how things are?

And, perhaps most importantly:

How much of what we believe about ourselves actually belongs to us?

These are the kinds of questions we will be exploring.

The Metaphysical Perspective: A Different Pair of Lenses

As a metaphysical expert, one of the services I will personally offer within The Coven is the dissection and contextualisation of women’s individual circumstances through the metaphysical lens.

And I want to be very clear about what that means.

I am not here to tell women what to do.

I’m not here to decide whether you should leave your relationship, change your career, forgive somebody, have children, reconcile with your family, or make any particular decision about your life.

That’s your life.

Your individuality.

Your autonomy.

Your consciousness navigating its own existence.

What I can offer is another perspective.

One that looks beyond the immediate circumstance and examines the wider dynamics contributing to its existence.

Because when we look at something metaphysically, we’re not only looking at what happened.

We’re exploring the consciousness involved, the relationships between different energies, the patterns of behaviour, the conditions that produced them, the influences of society, the construction of perception, and the ways in which our individual experiences interact with the greater field of existence.

We can explore something emotionally, psychologically, socially, culturally, historically, philosophically, and metaphysically.

We can investigate how different people have experienced similar circumstances and how their perspectives influenced the ways they navigated them.

We can move between perspectives without requiring ourselves to adopt any particular one.

The objective is not to replace your perspective with mine. It is to expand the perspectives available to you so that you can understand your own more deeply.

Because the more lenses you have available, the more dimensions of a circumstance you can explore.

And sometimes, all it takes is one perspective you have never considered to completely transform your relationship with something you have been carrying for years.

Not necessarily because the circumstance changes.

But because your understanding of it does.

And understanding changes how we experience reality.

Why Women? Why a Coven?

Because I don’t believe we talk nearly enough about what women actually experience.

And I don’t mean the conversations about women’s issues that occasionally make their way into politics, media, legislation, or public discourse.

Those conversations matter.

But they are often compartmentalised.

We discuss domestic violence when domestic violence becomes the subject.

We discuss motherhood when motherhood becomes the subject.

We discuss menstruation, sexuality, menopause, inequality, relationships, fertility, discrimination, or female leadership when those particular subjects enter the conversation.

But where is the space where the entirety of a woman’s existence can be explored without needing to fit into a predefined category?

Where do we discuss the interconnectedness of all these experiences?

Where do we explore how a woman’s relationship with her own body might influence her relationship with intimacy, confidence, creativity, autonomy, ambition, spirituality, and identity?

Where do we examine how the expectations placed upon women throughout history continue to influence the emotional and behavioural dynamics we navigate today?

Where do we explore how women experience power?

Not simply political or economic power.

Emotional power.

Sexual power.

Creative power.

Maternal power.

Intellectual power.

Metaphysical power.

The power of understanding oneself.

The power of being able to exist without constantly translating one’s individuality into something society finds acceptable.

And where do we discuss the things that women themselves might be uncomfortable admitting, not because there is anything inherently wrong with their existence, but because they have never encountered an environment where those thoughts could be explored without immediate judgement?

We live within societies whose institutions, rules, traditions, and structures have historically been shaped predominantly through male perspectives.

That doesn’t mean men have nothing valuable to contribute to understanding women’s experiences.

It means women deserve spaces where our own perspectives are the starting point rather than the exception.

Where we don’t have to continuously explain our experiences through frameworks that weren’t necessarily constructed with our individuality in mind.

Where women can learn about women directly from women.

And perhaps discover that the female experience is far more diverse, complex, and expansive than any single societal definition could ever capture.

Nothing Is Off the Table

And I mean that.

Nothing.

Not the beautiful things.

Not the ugly things.

Not the embarrassing things.

Not the things you think you’re the only woman experiencing.

Not the thoughts that contradict what you were taught a woman should think.

Not the emotions you have been told are inappropriate.

Not the desires you have never voiced.

Not the experiences you cannot quite make sense of.

Everything belongs at the table because everything is capable of being explored through consciousness.

We can discuss love, hatred, jealousy, friendship, betrayal, resentment, desire, motherhood, childlessness, ageing, beauty, sexuality, loneliness, money, ambition, spirituality, religion, identity, family, relationships, power, trauma, pleasure, creativity, and absolutely anything else that arises.

We can discuss the contradictions within ourselves.

We can challenge the things we have been taught.

We can question the things we have accepted.

We can explore why two women might experience the same circumstance in completely different ways.

And we can investigate why two seemingly different circumstances might actually share the same underlying dynamics.

Nothing has to be reduced to right or wrong before we have even understood what we are looking at.

Understanding comes before judgement.

And disagreement doesn’t have to become division.

Because we’re not gathering to manufacture one collective female opinion.

We’re gathering to expand our collective understanding of female individuality.

There is a difference.

Contextualisation Rather Than Compartmentalisation

One of the greatest limitations I see in how we navigate our lives is the tendency to compartmentalise experiences instead of contextualising them.

We place things into categories.

Relationships over here.

Childhood over there.

Work in another compartment.

Sexuality somewhere else.

Our emotional experiences get separated from our intellectual development, our societal experiences get separated from our personal identity, and our beliefs become isolated from the circumstances that produced them.

But our existence doesn’t actually operate in compartments.

Everything is interacting with everything else.

The woman you are in a relationship is not disconnected from the girl you once were.

The woman you are at work is not disconnected from the woman you are in your friendships.

Your relationship with your body does not exist independently of the society in which you learned to perceive it.

Your emotional responses don’t emerge from nowhere.

Your expectations have histories.

Your beliefs have origins.

Your patterns have contexts.

And the more we learn to recognise those connections, the more consciously we can navigate our own existence.

That’s what I want The Coven to nurture.

Not an environment where women collect advice.

An environment where women develop the capacity to understand more of what they experience.

Because advice can tell you what somebody else would do.

Contextualisation can help you discover why you might choose to do something entirely different.

And I find the latter infinitely more empowering.

A Table That Doesn’t Require You to Have the Answers

You don’t have to arrive with a problem.

You don’t have to be struggling.

You don’t have to be going through some extraordinary life event.

You don’t even have to know what you want to discuss.

You might simply be curious.

You might have observed something in your own behaviour that you want to understand.

You might have a question about a dynamic you’ve witnessed between other people.

You might want to explore a societal expectation, a historical pattern, a philosophical idea, or a metaphysical interpretation of something you have experienced.

You might want to share a discovery.

Or perhaps you simply want to listen.

Because there is also tremendous value in being exposed to experiences we have never personally encountered.

We don’t have to live every circumstance to learn from its existence.

And this is one of the greatest opportunities that a collective space offers.

One woman’s experience might provide the language another woman has been searching for.

One woman’s question might reveal a perspective none of us had previously considered.

One woman’s interpretation might challenge an assumption that has influenced generations of women.

And sometimes, simply hearing someone articulate something you have never been able to explain can create an entirely new dimension of self-understanding.

Not because somebody has handed you your truth.

But because you’ve encountered something that helps you recognise more of it.

The Purity of the Space

I want The Coven to remain a space created for women, by women, through women.

Not a performance.

Not a competition.

Not an environment where somebody has to demonstrate that they’re the most intelligent, the most spiritually developed, the most successful, the most feminine, or the most conscious.

We’re not here to establish hierarchies of womanhood.

We’re here to explore womanhood in all its individuality.

And that requires something incredibly valuable:

The freedom to be understood without having to be agreed with.

We can challenge each other’s interpretations without attacking each other’s identities.

We can question each other’s reasoning without denying each other’s experiences.

We can hold different beliefs without demanding that everybody arrives at the same conclusions.

We can be curious about the perspectives that make us uncomfortable.

And we can recognise that somebody else’s experience of life does not have to invalidate our own.

The purity of this space is not about ensuring that every conversation is comfortable.

Some conversations will be uncomfortable.

Some will challenge deeply held beliefs.

Some might reveal things about ourselves that we have spent years avoiding.

But discomfort and harm are not interchangeable.

We can explore difficult realities while maintaining care, dignity, confidentiality, consent, and respect for the women participating.

Nothing is off the table as a subject of understanding.

That does not mean anybody’s boundaries, privacy, or autonomy are off the table for violation.

The freedom to explore must coexist with the freedom to decide what we personally wish to share.

No woman owes the room her vulnerability.

And no woman should have to surrender her individuality to belong.

What I Want The Coven to Become

A living library of women’s experiences.

Not a library made of books alone.

A library made of consciousness.

Of conversations.

Of discoveries.

Of perspectives.

Of experiences that have been dissected, contextualised, questioned, and understood through different lenses.

A space where our conversations can develop into new questions, new explorations, and new ways of understanding the world.

Where women across different generations, backgrounds, cultures, circumstances, and stages of life can contribute to a greater collective awareness without losing what makes their individual perspectives unique.

Imagine a young woman being able to explore questions about her identity alongside women who have already navigated entirely different versions of that experience.

Imagine an older woman discovering perspectives that weren’t available to her when she was younger.

Imagine women with completely different lifestyles being able to understand the reasoning, circumstances, and consciousness behind one another’s choices without needing to imitate them.

Imagine how much language we could develop.

How many assumptions we could examine.

How many patterns we could recognise.

How many experiences we could contextualise before they become sources of prolonged confusion, isolation, or unnecessary suffering.

And imagine how much more consciously we could relate to one another when we’re no longer relying exclusively on the limited interpretations we’ve inherited.

This is also why The Coven belongs within SHS – Human First.

Because we’re not just interested in understanding humanity as a collective.

We’re interested in understanding the individuality that makes the collective possible.

And women’s experiences are an enormous field of human consciousness that deserves continuous exploration on its own terms.

Why Call It The Coven?

Because I love the idea of women gathering around a table, bringing their knowledge, their questions, their experiences, their intuitions, and their different relationships with existence.

The imagery of a coven has long been associated with women gathering around forms of knowledge, intuition, spirituality, and practices that exist beyond conventional institutions.

And that’s precisely the kind of intellectual and metaphysical freedom I want us to explore.

But we’re not gathering to practise one particular belief system.

We’re gathering to explore consciousness.

Your spirituality can differ from mine.

Your religious beliefs can differ from somebody else’s.

You might not identify with spirituality at all.

That’s perfectly fine.

The metaphysical perspective is the lens I offer, not a belief system you are required to adopt.

Your consciousness is your contribution. Your individuality is your qualification. Your curiosity is your invitation.

And perhaps that’s the most beautiful thing about this concept.

We’re creating a space where women’s experiences don’t have to be translated into somebody else’s understanding of womanhood before they become worthy of exploration.

We can explore them ourselves.

Together.

Without having to agree.

Without having to conform.

Without having to arrive at a conclusion.

And without having to pay for the privilege of being part of the conversation.

Because within SHS, education, exploration, understanding, and human development are not commodities.

They’re part of what we’re building for one another.

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SHS – THE COVEN

For Women. By Women. Through Women.

Bring your experiences. Bring your questions. Bring your contradictions. Bring your curiosity. Bring the things you understand and the things you don’t.

Nothing is off the table, because the table exists for everything to be offloaded, dissected, contextualised, understood, and challenged.

I’m not here to tell you how to live your life. I’m here to explore just how much more of your life there might be for you to understand.

And I suspect we’ll all discover things we never even knew there were questions for.

Welcome to The Coven.

SHS – Human First | Heaven Of the Natural Earth — The Hueman (Homo Agen)