The hidden heroes are those who do even when the cameras aren’t around, as a way of life, not PR.

We need to create for others and self, neither one or the other .

• Creating for self creates the Narcissistic trait and creating for others creates the martyr. It must be both in one. Responsibility for all.

We need to account for own and stand by own word, as it evolves especially.

• To protect from own creations and stand by the word of spoken creations. Without either we create extraction through lack of accountability.

These days men and women have merged the biological stereotype, so using men and women or female and males categories, don’t count as much. The only thing it represents is the biology, not the traits anymore. We must be real with ourselves and that’s fine, cause we get to be emotionally and mentally androginous, that is still not an excude for slacking on humanity.

I did a lot of splittings based on biology, to then say we are not those things secluded to sex, but to out human ness. Regardless of the body.

Men learned manipulation, cause they thought women’s survival was in competition to their existence, we still need sperm snd a heslthy and happy sperm would be the best bet, so we need to take care of men too.

And for women mastered out of survival how to navigate the systems men created, cause they were so to keep women small, not to liberate them. We are masters of adaptation, us as women, we will outdo any system that subjugates one way or the other. Whereas we build to encompass all by nature, we must fight to encompass all in a masculine system.

See the difference? Yet now women eho have mastered the system represent it as their own boundary defending it literally wuth their lives and men keep building things that hinders humanity, as neither has a humanitarian calibrator.

The problem preceded me, I’m naturally inclined to tend for the all and having it seen at home from both the men and the women, I naturally look at what benefits the whole.

From nature to nurture I witnessed the same thread, so it was easy for me to believe we are all one. Easy for me to pick uo on our relstions. Easy for me to see how we cocreate. Easy for me to see ehst each needed, cause to cater to all you must challenge yourself to extend to all and understand the individuals in the whole.

Start from home and watch tour kids grow into beast mode for the all. If you only show them to take care of some, they’ll forever grow only considering their own.

I woukd see my mum leave any change she had to the homeless. And my dad gifting functionality to other fsmilies he knew were struggling during festivities and less for me, but then would provide for me outside of festivities too. He would plunge the sewers of a building of 10+ building block, and would have me help and woukd make no fuss about it, just get stuck in finishing the work in the quickest and most efficient way. Mum would cook for hours for her community and sit their pains for more giving pastoral care and then teach me responsibility from benefitting from her cooking. The cleaning at the end, not glamouroush but informative.

Mum provided for the systematical self of others and dad provided for the system of mum