Now look at the system: it is designed for the man to represent it undyingly and for the woman to stay outside of it and submit to it. The system does not want this balance, cause it’d have more of me challenging it for the benefit of the people, in spite of it.

Having one that represents either, doesn’t work, it’s unbalanced, as it only teaches half of the equation to life, unless you have one parent that happens to represent both, systematical prowess and humanitarian justice.

And thinking about all of this, well I’m really looking at being a great example of what a man is, is a man that does not put the system beyond what he knows life to be. Because, because the ways in which we look at life, the man is the one that usually upholds the system that society goes by, right? And because, because we live in a patriarchal system. So it is normal that the man is the one that usually follows the system. And any type of systematical belief that is held in society, the man is the one that holds it. The man is the one that represents it. So the difference between any other man and my dad is the fact that he represented life through every choice and decision. He was not perfect, but he made sure that nature and life came before anything else. He did not allow systematical beliefs to infiltrate his family. And how we chose to see each other and how we chose to actually be with each other. He made sure that those societal views of what a family should be about, what a man should be about, what a daughter should be about, what a wife should be about. He did not, he made sure that he guarded us from the system by putting himself before it. Not before it, but by channeling his love, not even in spite of it, just he didn’t, he, when it mattered, he made sure that his heart spoke before the system did. Because his heart was rooted in life and not in the system. He still represents the system. Like he’s someone that throughout my life and my childhood, well not childhood, but my youth, young adulthood, he told me like make sure that you get a job and all those things. But he always only told me that because, because he understands the system in which we live in. And he told me just because I want to make sure that you’re happy. And every time that I told him, for example, oh, I got this job that paid me 42K and I’m only 23. He was like, cool. He didn’t make, he didn’t celebrate it. He told me to get it, well to get a job so that he knew that I was taken care of where he couldn’t necessarily extend the finances to take care of me. But he also made sure not to celebrate when I got those quote unquote societal achievements. And that in contrast to what I now understand to be a great woman figure in the current system in life is a woman that learns the system to aid to her people. My mom, I’ve mentioned this before, she helped a lot of people get in like documentations and whatnot. And just develop themselves beyond whichever limitation that they were in. And so she on one side I had my dad who didn’t necessarily celebrated societal wins because he understood what the real wins were about. And on the other side I had mom who learned the system to help her people. Those two archetypes are the most balanced archetypes that one could have had and could have at home because they create a very balanced individual. The reason why is because of course a woman being a woman, she doesn’t need to learn the system if the man represents the system. But if the man lives by the system but lives by, well, if the man lives in the system but by unconditional love, it is different because he’s also representing the human side whilst also living within the constructs of the system. So write a post about this archetype, this balance and the father created me. Someone that is both a savage systematically but also someone that represents humanity in every room that I walk in